Why am I sneaking into my ten year old daughter's room to switch off her light when she's fallen asleep, book in hand? Or striding into her room well past lights out, to demand she hand over the book this instant? She loves reading, that's why. But this wasn't always the case. I used to read to her every night - then I figured it was time for her to step up and take over. After all, my mother had proudly informed me once, she had NEVER read me a book - it was up to me to learn how to read for myself (now that's a tough love approach!).
Nearly two years ago, I decided M should start reading on her own. But this idea wasn't embraced with enthusiasm. So much easier just lying back and letting Mum do all the hard work. Plus, its frustrating when you have to figure out words all the time. So reading fell by the wayside a bit.
Then two things happened: Mrs GS (her wonderful teacher) and the Diary of a Wimpy Kid books. Most teachers don't seem to read aloud to their students after they turn 9 or so. Just like I did, they think its time for them to read for themselves. But what I forgot, is that you still have to inspire kids to WANT to make the effort.
When I started hearing what an AMAZING reader Mrs GS was and when M demanded I buy the books she was listening to in class, I realized reading aloud was still important. I have heard Mrs GS read to her kids and YES M, she is brilliant (possibly even better than me, but I'm not admitting it). She reads with passion and drama and the kids hang on her every word. She reads whole books, extracts from books, (so they have to finish the book themselves) plus poems and plays. She's covered an amazing breadth with her kids, which inspires them to read for themselves. They've done Shakespeare and classic poems as well as many contemporary stories. What a treat its been for all of them.
Now the other reason for M embracing books, is the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series. She discovered this series and has read them all. They are rude and funny and silly and very easy to read and completely in 'kid speak'. BUT there is something to be said for books that kids just whizz through easily. They enjoy them and gain confidence in their reading. They're great for boys and girls and without a doubt, they work best with reluctant readers. I guess there's nothing like an endless stream of fart jokes and embarrassing accidents where you GROAN for the hapless main character.
Nearly two years ago, I decided M should start reading on her own. But this idea wasn't embraced with enthusiasm. So much easier just lying back and letting Mum do all the hard work. Plus, its frustrating when you have to figure out words all the time. So reading fell by the wayside a bit.
Then two things happened: Mrs GS (her wonderful teacher) and the Diary of a Wimpy Kid books. Most teachers don't seem to read aloud to their students after they turn 9 or so. Just like I did, they think its time for them to read for themselves. But what I forgot, is that you still have to inspire kids to WANT to make the effort.
When I started hearing what an AMAZING reader Mrs GS was and when M demanded I buy the books she was listening to in class, I realized reading aloud was still important. I have heard Mrs GS read to her kids and YES M, she is brilliant (possibly even better than me, but I'm not admitting it). She reads with passion and drama and the kids hang on her every word. She reads whole books, extracts from books, (so they have to finish the book themselves) plus poems and plays. She's covered an amazing breadth with her kids, which inspires them to read for themselves. They've done Shakespeare and classic poems as well as many contemporary stories. What a treat its been for all of them.
Now the other reason for M embracing books, is the Diary of a Wimpy Kid series. She discovered this series and has read them all. They are rude and funny and silly and very easy to read and completely in 'kid speak'. BUT there is something to be said for books that kids just whizz through easily. They enjoy them and gain confidence in their reading. They're great for boys and girls and without a doubt, they work best with reluctant readers. I guess there's nothing like an endless stream of fart jokes and embarrassing accidents where you GROAN for the hapless main character.
M now reads all sorts of books, many of them quite challenging (so not just the rude and easy ones).
Just last night (at ten o clock - MUCH TOO LATE!!) I had to go and remove Skulduggery Pleasant so she could get some sleep.
So in hindsight, I think the smarter approach for me, was to keep reading bits of stories with my daughter taking over the reading - once she was "hooked'. To other parents wanting to get their kids reading on their own, I'd say a bit of a mix of you and them to start, and some easy fun books to give them confidence. Sharing the reading with a bit of you and them makes for a shared experience they love at any age (well till the teenage years).
Just last night (at ten o clock - MUCH TOO LATE!!) I had to go and remove Skulduggery Pleasant so she could get some sleep.
So in hindsight, I think the smarter approach for me, was to keep reading bits of stories with my daughter taking over the reading - once she was "hooked'. To other parents wanting to get their kids reading on their own, I'd say a bit of a mix of you and them to start, and some easy fun books to give them confidence. Sharing the reading with a bit of you and them makes for a shared experience they love at any age (well till the teenage years).